I'm Kathryn, I write LONG posts. I don't know how to be brief. He's Ryan, he proofreads and is brief. We have been married for 10 years. We had two sets of twins in 3 years. That means that either we are such good parents that our kids jump from heaven 2 at a time or they are so scared that they need a partner. This is us, trying to figure it out.